How can I deal with the fact, that my boyfriend is a cheater? I just wanna talk about cheating and my opinions of cheating, cheating, boyfriends, girlfriends, wives, husbands, whatever. This is just my thoughts, my personal thoughts on this topic. So I do not condone cheating at all and I am not an expert in relationships whatsoever, but I do have my own experiences. I have known a lot of people in my life that have cheated on their significant other and I do not condone it whatsoever.
Do whatever your heart tells you
I feel like my advice would be really helpful. I just want to say that whoever is in a relationship and your significant other is obviously cheating on you. I say do what your heart tells you for everybody. It’s different different scenarios. But if you if you decide to give them a second chance, if you decide to break it off. Do what your heart tells you. And I know that sounds really corny, but that’s really all. True. And. I’ve had it happened to me in the past where I’ve known that my boyfriend was cheating on me. You know, three or four times and I just kind of and it was three or four different times and I kind of just, you know. Thought it was nothing, thought it was just flirting, nothing too serious, but we were in a long distance relationship and, you know. It just sucks when somebody’s chain on you and I know that it hurts when you find. And sometimes you don’t really know what to do, but you have to recover from that you do and you have to learn yourself that it’s okay to feel hurt. It’s okay to make a decision whether or not you want to be with that person. It’s just not right and especially if you’re a married couple. It’s not right to do that to each other to keep hurting each other like that. I just feel like it’s not it’s not right.
You deserve better
There are many fish in the sea that is not going to be your last person that you find on this earth and why would you keep letting yourself get hurt in this situation in this relationship with the person that you love when they’re hurting you more than they should be loving you. You know what I mean. I just want to share my advice and my light. And thoughts on this topic because it’s something that, like I said, has happened to me before and. It’s hard to really overcome the fact that somebody’s cheating on you, but you have to do it. You have to get over it. You have to be strong for yourself if you decide to move on from your relationship back. Your significant other is cheating on you. You learn a lot about yourself and it really does make you a better person. It builds you up. It makes you have a thicker skin. It makes you realize more about life and more about everything in general in this world and I just feel like whoever out there.
Help others to heal
If you know the feeling. Or, if you have really good advice, you know I really, really encourage you guys to you know give your friends advice, be there for them and it’s really emotional for me to talk about because like I said, it’s happened to me before and I just don’t like seeing people that I love and people that I’m close to getting hurt. So if somebody that’s close to you is getting hurt or you know, that they’re going through the same situation. I encourage you to just help them through it and you know be there for them and give them the best advice you can. And it’s truly up to them. They make their own decisions, but I hope that if it’s you that’s watching and you have to make that certain decision, I hope you do and. Just learn from your mistakes and learn from your significant others mistakes and just try to go on from there.